Understanding the true essence and definition of marriage coupling in the lens of the Holy Scripture
Exploring the Bible’s Take on Marriage
Hello everyone. Welcome back to Spiritual Podcast, the podcast where we dive deep into what the Bible really says about life’s big questions. I’m Elder Dan, your host. Today, we’re tackling a topic that’s as timeless as it gets: marriage. Specifically, we’re looking at the Bible’s perspectives on marriage between a man and a woman. We’ll chat about why physical intimacy waits until after those vows, why the Bible draws a clear line against same-sex marriages, and we’ll sprinkle in some inspiring examples of couples who got it right. So, grab your coffee, settle in, and let’s jump right in.
If you would rather listen to this, just click the play button below. 🙂
Episode is also available to listen free in other Pod Networks below.
First off, let’s set the stage. The Bible paints marriage as a sacred union designed by Almighty Yahweh Himself, right from the beginning. Yahweh creates this beautiful partnership between one man and one woman, where they leave their families, join together, and become one flesh. Genesis 2:24 spells it out plainly: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” Yahshua echoes this in Matthew 19:4-6, reminding us that what Yahweh joins together, no one should separate. It’s not just a contract or a party—it’s a divine covenant that reflects Elohim’s love for His people.
Now, on the intimacy front, the Bible makes it crystal clear: physical closeness, that deep physical connection, belongs exclusively inside marriage. You exchange those vows between a man and a woman, and then—and only then—does the green light flash for physical intimacy. Why? Because Yahweh designed deep physical intimacy as a unifying, holy act within that committed bond. Hebrews 13:4 urges us, “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for Yahweh will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” Paul gets practical in 1 Corinthians 7:2-5, advising couples to fulfill each other’s needs within marriage to avoid temptation. But outside of it? The Bible calls that fornication, and it warns us to steer clear. 1 Corinthians 6:18 puts it bluntly: “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.” Yes, Yahweh wants us to honor our bodies and our commitments, saving that gift for the lifelong promise of marriage.
Shifting gears a bit, let’s address something that’s hotly debated today. The Bible does not approve of marriages between two men or two women—ever! That includes any physical intimacy in those relationships. Scripture consistently upholds marriage as a heterosexual union, and it labels same-sex relations as contrary to Yahweh’s natural design. Leviticus 18:22 states it directly: “You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.” Paul expands on this in Romans 1:26-27, describing how people exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones, and he calls it dishonorable passions. Then there’s 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, which lists those who practice homosexuality among others who won’t inherit Yahweh’s kingdom, unless they repent and turn to Yahshua. These verses aren’t about hating people—they’re about aligning with Elohim’s blueprint for human flourishing. Yahweh loves everyone deeply, but He calls us to live by His standards, not our own.
But it’s not all about the “don’ts.” The Bible overflows with stories of couples who embodied sacred marriage, showing us what it looks like when done right. Take Adam and Eve, the originals. Yahweh forms Eve from Adam’s rib, and Adam exclaims, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh” (Genesis 2:23). They start humanity’s first family, navigating life together in the garden—until that whole apple incident with Satan the devil, but their union sets the foundation.
Then there’s Abraham and Sarah. Despite waiting decades for a child, they trust Yahweh’s promises. Sarah laughs at the idea of pregnancy in her old age, but Elohim delivers Isaac. Their story in Genesis 17-21 highlights faithfulness, even through doubts and mistakes, and how Yahweh blesses obedient couples.
Fast forward to Ruth and Boaz—a tale of redemption and loyalty. Ruth, a widow, pledges herself to her mother-in-law Naomi and ends up marrying Boaz, her kinsman-redeemer. Ruth 4:13-17 shows their union producing a lineage that leads to King David and eventually Yahshua. It’s a beautiful picture of protection, provision, and pure romance under Yahweh’s guidance.
And don’t forget Isaac and Rebekah. Genesis 24 tells how Abraham’s servant prays for the right wife for Isaac, and Elohim leads him straight to Rebekah. Isaac loves her deeply, and their marriage thrives on prayer and divine direction. Or Mary and Joseph—talk about stepping up! Joseph stands by Mary during her miraculous pregnancy, protecting her and raising Yahshua as his own (Matthew 1:18-25). Yes, the obedience of these biblical characters models humility and trust in Yahweh’s plan.
These examples remind us that good marriages are not trouble-free—yes, they involve real people facing real challenges—but when rooted in Yahweh’s word, they shine. They prioritize commitment, mutual respect, and putting the other first, just like Ephesians 5:25 urges husbands to love their wives as Yahshua loves the church.
Friends, if you’d like to continue this conversation or share your thoughts on this topic, leave a comment below or reach out to me directly. You are also welcome to read or listen to our previous podcast episodes on this website and visit our sister website by clicking here to read and learn more genuine truths from the Bible.
Alright, folks, that’s our deep dive for today about this topic. Remember, the Bible’s views on marriage challenge us to see it as more than a feeling—it’s a holy adventure between a man and a woman, sealed with vows, fueled by intimacy in its proper place, and modeled after Almighty Yahweh, our Father in heaven’s unwavering love. If this podcast messages resonates with you, kindly hit that subscribe button and share it with your family and friends. What biblical couple that I mentioned inspires you the most? And which passages of the Scripture that I mentioned are your favorites? Until next time, keep seeking truth. This is Elder Dan, signing off.
Brethren, before I go, let me pray this prayer for you: May Yahweh bless you and keep you; may Yahweh make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you; may Yahweh lift up His countenance upon you and give you peace. I humbly pray all these things to Yahweh through Yahshua the Messiah, our Master and coming King, amen. Kindly keep praying for the shalom of Israel. Take care. Halleluyah!